Harold Robert Meyer and The ADD Resource Center 01/21/2025
Executive Summary:
You’ve been there: staring at your perfectly crafted to-do list, feeling your heart sink as you realize it’s just not working. Whether you have ADHD or simply find traditional productivity methods falling short, there’s a better way forward. Here’s how to transform your approach to getting things done.
Why Your Perfect List Isn’t Working
Take a moment to look at your to-do lists. You probably have them scattered across your phone, laptop, desk, and maybe even your refrigerator. Yet somehow, important things keep slipping through the cracks. You’re not alone, and more importantly, you’re not the problem.
Your to-do lists might be failing because they ignore a fundamental truth about how you work: your brain doesn’t work like a series of checkboxes. This is especially true if you have ADHD, where your interest, energy, and focus shift throughout the day like weather patterns.
Why This Really Matters
When your task management system isn’t working, the impact goes deeper than you might realize. Each time you fail to complete your list, you feel your confidence chip away. It strains your relationships when you miss commitments. It affects your career opportunities when deadlines slip. You might find yourself thinking, “If I could just try harder…” But here’s the truth: you don’t need to try harder—you need to try differently.
Your Better Way Forward
Instead of fighting against your natural patterns, you can work with them. Here’s how:
1. Create Your Energy Map
Forget rigid to-do lists. Start by noticing when you’re naturally alert and focused. These are your “power hours”—guard them carefully. You might find your best focus comes early in the morning or late at night when the world quiets down. These are your prime times for challenging tasks.
2. Follow Your Interest Patterns
You’re not procrastinating when you follow your natural interests—you’re working with your brain’s motivation system. When you feel a surge of enthusiasm for a project, ride that wave. You’ll accomplish more in two hours of engaged work than in eight hours of forced focus.
3. Build Your Support System
Create an environment that works for you:
- Find a work buddy (this is called body doubling)
- Set up visual reminders that catch your eye
- Break your tasks into smaller pieces that don’t overwhelm you
- Give yourself immediate rewards for completion
Making It Work For You
Start small. Pick one aspect of this approach that speaks to you. Perhaps begin by tracking your energy levels for a week. Notice when you naturally feel most focused. Use these insights to reshape your day gradually.
Remember: You’re not aiming for perfection—you’re aiming for progress.
Putting It Into Practice
Instead of your usual to-do list that might read:
- Write report
- Answer emails
- Plan meeting
- File taxes
Try this energy-based approach:
High Focus Needed (Do during your peak hours):
- Write the first draft of your report (45-minute chunks)
- Tackle tax preparation (with your favorite music playing)
Medium Focus (Can be done during regular hours):
- Plan your team meeting (with a colleague for motivation)
- Answer emails (in 20-minute sprints)
Your Path Forward
You’ll find your most effective task management system when you work with your natural tendencies, not against them. If you’ve struggled with traditional methods, it’s time to let go of what “should” work and embrace what actually does.
When you find yourself slipping back into old patterns, remind yourself: your worth isn’t measured by your ability to complete a to-do list. It’s measured by your ability to adapt and find solutions that work for your unique brain.
Learn More
To deepen your understanding:
- “Taking Charge of Adult ADHD” by Russell A. Barkley
- “Smart but Stuck” by Thomas E. Brown
- “The ADHD Guide to Career Success” by Kathleen G. Nadeau
- The ADD Resource Center addrc.org
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