When Perfect Becomes the Enemy of Good: Breaking the Cycle of Perfectionist Parenting
The roots of perfectionist parenting often lie in our own distorted childhood memories. Parents might remember themselves as model students, forgetting their own struggles and varied achievements. Others, who perhaps struggled academically, may compensate by demanding perfection from their children. That parent fixating on the A- might be viewing their own school years through rose-tinted glasses, or trying to fulfill their unrealized ambitions through their child.